Why weight training? Want results? Add it into your training...

Weight Training - training with weights.  Many people are afraid of the weight's area at the gym.  It is a common fact.  I know when I train I am pretty much the only girl training in the weights section of most Fitness First gyms I go too.  Why? Because most women (and some men) still believe that killing themselves with cardio will give them the body they desire.

WRONG.

Cardio gets you cardiovascular fitter, by strengthening your heart and lungs. More blood flow to your body and it's organs.

Weight training will help you get stronger, build a strong core, stronger muscles, you will look leaner and also burn more bodyfat at REST. Yes people, burning more at rest.

Cardio and weight training work together to ensure you are fit, healthy and strong.

If your goal is to run marathons, then you will stick to training that will enable your body to run for long durations, this will include strength training (weights). You obviously don't have to do strength training to actually do a marathon but it will enhance your training.

Train for your goals. Swimmers, triathletes, runners all move differently and will adapt a training program to suit their needs.  But for most of us, we just want to be fit, healthy and maybe even feel good about your body.

Your body will adapt to any changes that you give it, but it is your head that stops you. The fear. Fear of  failure, falling over, embarrassing yourself stop so many people from achieving their goals.  Of course you aren't going to know exactly what to do in a weights area of the gym if you have never done weights before, your brain only knows what signals it has received from other training you have completed.  But you didn't know how to walk or talk at one point in your life, did you and how is that going for you now? You CAN achieve anything.

Keeping your bone density at a safe level you HAVE to do some form of resistance training, not running or cardio!!  Losing muscle will increase your risk of low bone density. No matter how much calcium you digest, your body stops laying down new bone in your 30's- you need to stimulate to lay down more -  muscles and tendons NEED to pull on the bones to be stimulated to produce more get the blood flowing through, regenerating the area, having healthy bones, it protects against falls and fractures as well improving balance and strength.  (falls and fractures aren't just for older people)!   Which promotes overall health and reduction of so many diseases!! Overall health people is our goal.

Do you want to have a fit and healthy body? More importantly do you want to have strong bones, strong muscles (don't think size, think strength) if you want to step forwards into your goals for fitness and well-being you will steam ahead with adding weight training to your programme 2-3times a week, easy.  

Quality over quantity.   Your body needs to recover to grow and adapt to changes.  Constantly pushing your body through its paces will slow down this process, you need to:-

FUEL - clean healthy foods, lots of fresh vegetables, lean meats, good fats and water!!

RECOVER - if you feel tired, run down, listen to your body. Eat well, sleep well, avoid late nights, avoid loads of alcohol, sugars, get a massage.... LISTEN TO YOUR BODY!
REST - full day rest one day a week MINIMUM (no active recovery)

Don't compare yourself to how others are training unless you know exactly what they are training for and where in the scheme of things they are up too! They probably have a different goal than you or are at a different achievement process, or they could be over training if they are doing like 10 classes a week!

LESS IS MORE!

I love a good circuit weights session when I really want to ramp up my heart rate and get some solid training in I will do super-sets and work opposing muscle groups (biceps/triceps) and then through in burpees or jump squats to increase the intensity.   Even when I am training a certain body part with weights I am in and out of the gym in 45mins. You don't have to spend hours on training, quality versus quantity!

So how to get started? Some gyms have great deals for PT so you can have a few sessions and get comfortable with the basics. Pump classes will teach you a few simple lifting techniques which you can practice on your own in the gym - you have to start somewhere!  

I love BB.com (bodybuilding site) they are so informative and you can really find out about training, read easy articles to get you started.  Check out this article!

Aim for 2 full body weight training sessions a week to get you started.... or you can split the training into upper/lower.  This is better if you are time conscious.  When the weights get lighter, put them up! You can do it!

My favourite splits are

Day 1 - Legs & core - squats, walking lunges, step ups, calf raises, deadlifts - warm up on bike or treadmill, do 1 warm up set lighter weights and then 3 sets of each exercise with 10-12reps.

I add core exercises in between sets ie

squats

walking lunges

plank hold for a minute

repeat this 2-3 times

step ups (with handweights if you have strong balance)

calf raises

side plank holds each side 30 seconds

deadlifts

When you are doing your leg exercises with free weights this is working your core as your body has to stabilise to complete the exercise.  This is why I recommend you don't use machines when you first start out! Learn how to train your body and then incorporate these machines for a more isolated workout.

Day 2 - Upper Body - chest press on swiss ball, seated row, shoulder press, lat pulldowns, pushups, tricep dips, back extensions.

I would mix up the exercises something like this:

chest press on ball

alternate with seated row - complete sets and then do

Lat pulldowns

Pushups

then

Shoulder press

Tricep dips

Is the weight too light? My rule of thumb is if the last 2-3 reps you cannot feel the burn, it is too light, DO NOT BE AFRAID TO GO UP, that is how you get results otherwise you are not challenging your muscles!!

If you wanted to do three days on the third day you can mix up the two upper lower, something like this

Day 3

squats

chest press on ball

walking lunges

lat pulldown

deadlifts

pushups

step ups (with handweights)

tricep dips

step ups

Add one or two cardio/high intensity training days and you are done for the week!

Other reasons why weight lifting is good for you... read this article!

So, about your body!

SO I have a question for you, would you like to be your ideal body shape or fit and healthy?  We talk so negatively about our bodies and punish ourselves far too much -  do these comments sound familiar?

"I hate my thighs"

"Does my butt look big in this"

"I wish I had a six-pack"

" She is so lucky she can eat what she wants"

"I wish I was skinny"

"I wish I didn't have tuck shop arms"

"I am too tired to exercise"

"I don't have time to train today, had a busy day and the kids....."

You get the idea.   We are never freaking happy! Something is always happening or "stopping us". There is never going to be a perfect time to commence any change in life, but you have to give it a crack.  I love that I have fallen down so many times in my life, because I am a stronger and more determined person for it. I can reflect back on those times when other hurdles appear and know that I will be able to deal with this because I have before.  I now believe in myself and I know I can achieve things if I set my heart, soul and my mind to it.  Some of us still choose to change our lives by thinking  fad diets, quick fixes, or overdoing it with countless exercise classes, give up and wonder why we bothered as nothing worked, did it?

Ahh yes... the whole "quick fix" and "I want it now" syndrome. Very common in western society, mostly among women.  We quickly drop our IQ because a magazine cover tells us that we can drop 10kgs in five seconds...  Think about the other areas of your life, your home, you work, do you sit down and research and plan for your job, business and home affairs? Why not your body and your mind? 

Did it take you that long to put the weight on or to get unfit? NO. Well sorry to be the bearer of bad news, it ain't going to happen that quickly either.  The scales BTW are NOT your friend. They will not show you your dreams. They will make you obsessed, miserable and feeling like you have failed (when you have probably been quite good in some respect).  If you cannot focus on anything else except those numbers on that scale, you need to bin them, now. You need to get your head into a healthier space about your body/weight. Because it isn't as simple as the numbers on the scale. They do not reflect who you are, what you have achieved, do they? 

Stand in front of the mirror every night before you go to bed and say three things you were grateful for today - they could be anything. This is to get you into a positive habit of saying good things about yourself. They don't have to be body related at all. They could be a) I had a great meeting with my manager b) I got the early train home from work c) I feel great after my session at the gym d) saw a great movie with Jane. You get the idea.

How you are is how you think. If you think positive, you will reap positive. Yes shite happens, but you know what, it happens to everyone, that is life, that is living, that is part of becoming stronger and more determined to be a better you. Another favourite message from the lovely Mish Bridges, is "stop being the victim". Be strong. Be proud. No more excuses or blaming others.

You are what you eat.  This takes time obviously to change how you feel within yourself. But notice the small things that happen when you start to take control and eat fresh wholesome foods and move your body - are you sleeping better, stressing less about stuff, is your skin glowing more, do you generally feel happy and more energetic?  It will take a few weeks to kick in, but start noticing the little things that change. Stop focusing on the BODY image so much. Fall in love with who YOU are and you will start to find the journey to getting healthier and fitter easier (is there another word for journey, really)?

What are the main reasons for not achieving your goals, in general?  Here are my reasons that I believe are stopping us from achieving our goals (to be fit, lose weight, run a marathon, learn how to hula hoop, whatever):

Fear

The fear of failing, the fear of trying something new and being out of your comfort zone, why are we so afraid to try new things, what honestly is going to happen to you? How do you think you will feel once you have completed the task you were afraid of?

 (I have visions of me out at Home bush on the trapeze, I so wanted to be calm climbing that ladder and jumping, why was I so scared, I wasn't going to drop to my death, but it still crippled me)

Fear of being successful - what happens if you do achieve your goals, you will be out of your comfort zone so far you won't recognise yourself, which is a positive thing, but it is still change...  which leads me to the next point...

Perception 

Why do we worry how people perceive us?. We are so freaking worried about what other people might say or do that it can limit us. Why do we care so much about what people think about us?  Be that unique person in your life, be that person that people talk about, saying look what they achieved!  If they cannot handle it, then that is their problem and not yours. The issues they have with you are actually a reflection of how they see themselves, harsh but so very, very true.  Some people like to see you unhappy because it makes them feel comfortable, that is not healthy and you don't need to be surrounded by toxic people who do not support you 100%.

Comparison

I learnt many years ago that whilst I have long legs I will never look or be like Elle MacPherson (I know I know, I was so shocked too, I used to do her aerobics tape and everything)!  Stop comparing yourself to others, they aren't you and you aren' t them.  You need to achieve YOUR goals for YOU. You will probably have to do things differently to others to achieve them, because you know what we are all different, our bodies and minds are the same but they are slightly wired differently! Some could have injuries, have food tolerances, allergies - you need to work out what you CAN do and focus on that... you might be surprised what you find out about yourself.

***I am not perfect, I don't want to be perfect, I am just me, comfortable in my own skin and need to just give myself that little confidence boost now and then to remind me that I too can achieve anything I set out too.

I need to tackle my fears just like the next person... so am thinking let's tackle them together.... what is your biggest fear? Discuss...

Healthy recipes for you to try!

I find being prepared (especially for breakfast and snacks) keeps me on my healthy eating plan! Here are some of my favourite recipes I have made up or found! Enjoy! Love you to share others you have created or found with the rest of the 10week team!  Food dosen't have to be fancy to make, no-one wants to spend hours in the kitchen. A couple cook up days a week and you are good to go, you will get into a pattern and have favourites that you cook time and time again. Add your own flavour to these also.I encourage you to share your recipes...

Egg Muffins

These are great for breakfast, lunch or snacks! They freeze well too.  You can bulk them up with any protein and vegetables that you like.

You can either use muffin tins sprayed with olive oil or put cupcake patties in the muffin trays or onto an oven tray.

*Do not overfill if you are just putting in patties on a tray, they might expand

Makes 16-20 egg muffins

10 -12 eggs whisked well (use whole eggs)

1 shallot

2 zucchini

3 big handfuls of spinach

1 cup  roasted capsicum (red and/or yellow)

6-8 slices of cooked bacon or sliced ham

Fresh basil

salt and black pepper to taste

Preheat oven to 180 degrees, grease with olive oil two muffin pans (or one at a time depending on your pan situation). Whisk all your eggs in a big bowl. In a food processor throw in the shallot, zucchini, bacon, and peppers and process until finely chopped but NOT smooth (yuck…).  Add this mixture to your eggs.  Throw your spinach into the processor and finely chop and also add to your eggs. Mix the egg mixture well and using a 1/4 measuring cup, fill the muffin pans Bake for 20-25 minutes or until the eggs are set in the middle. 

Allow to cool for 15-20mins before putting in fridge or freezer. I use glad bags and freeze two at a time, they are ready to go!  Serve with a green salad, avocado and homemade salsa! YUM

Baked eggs 

I so love this on the weekend or even a cheeky mid week dinner, if you have ramekin dishes these are perfect.... 

I use tinned tomatoes, mix with pref fresh herbs, garlic

Fry off some onion, chorizo (or bacon) mushrooms if you fancy, do not overcook

Mix in with tomatoes/herbs, place in ramekin dish and crack egg on top (two if dish fits)

Bake for about 15-20mins at 160degrees

Serve with avocado, salsa and spinach

Quick homemade salsa

Ingredients

• 2 large ripe tomatoes, diced
• 1/2 large onion, diced
• 1 jalapeno pepper, chopped
• 1 teaspoon lime juice
• salt, pepper, and garlic (to taste)

Instructions

1. Combine tomatoes, onion, pepper and lime juice.
2. Add salt, pepper and garlic to taste.
3. Serve.
4. Store fresh homemade salsa in the refrigerator.

Baked chicken, with paprika, lemon garlic (great for large batches for left overs)

500g - 1kg chicken breast or thighs (your choice, I love thighs myself)

2 tsp paprika

1 tsp chilli flakes/or fresh

2 cups fresh lemon juice

2 tsp garlic

Put 500g to a 1kg of chicken breasts (sliced in half ) or thighs (with skin, or without, your choice) in a oven proof dish.

Mix paprika, lemon, garlic into a paste and pour over chicken   Cover chicken with lid or foil.

Bake at 180degrees for 20-25mins, taking cover off for last 5mins.

*For something different, add chorizo and pineapple to the mix. Delish.

 

Turkey meatballs, tomato sauce (homemade or tins fine) with zucchini strips

I just love Nigella's recipe for turkey meatballs.  I take out the sugar and use fresh breadcrumbs.

Use fresh thyme when you can! Dried is ok.  This freezes great too!  Serves 4 people. Bulk it up and make lots... mmm.

Steam some zuchini slices, and serve.

Simple Curry

Seriously, the internet nowadays is a great resource, I have so many favourite links stored with recipes.  This one I started using this recipe late last year and found it easy, which should be the whole point of cooking. I always have coconut milk and curry paste in my cupboard - just add fresh ingredients depending on your mood! I love a red fish curry with green beans and sweet potato.  

* use light coconut milk if you want, Ayam brand is best. Don't be afraid to use full fat. serve with steamed vegetables or just have on own. If for lunch serve with brown rice.

 Baked Fish

When I get home from the gym and could eat a horse, this is what I whip up.

Put fish fillets (I use basa) on tin foil

Mix up soy sauce, ginger, garlic, chilli and a little lemon

Pour over fish fillets

If you have a bit of time, marinate the fish in the marinade for 10-15mins then put in oven

Bake in oven for 20-25mins or until cooked, 180 degrees

Serve with steamed vegetables (bok choy, asparagus, zucchini, broccoli) or with some sweet potato mash if you fancy.

Protein Balls

These are great if you really feel like eating bad processed chocolate or lollies - these are a great treat, you can make them and freeze them in sep bags and they will be a much healthier option.  I wouldn't eat daily.....

200g almond meal

1tbsp cacao powder (or cocoa powder)

10 dates (chopped super fine)

1 scoop your favourite flavour of protein powder (I love Tony Sfeir's natural or pea protein) choose one with low sugar and less crap added in.
Mix in a little water to get a good "ball rolling" consistency and roll in coconut.

Other quick meals that are cheap and easy to plan
** Bake sweet potato and other veggies to have with chicken and wild rocket (baked beetroot is great) have raw cauliflower with it and carrots
** Tuna, shallot and celery mixed with lemon juice, have with some baked veggies and/or spinach
** Blend up some fruit, coconut milk into a shake (berries, banana)
** Apple with almond butter (great snack)
** Almonds, blueberries (yum) great when eaten together... try it...
**  Kangaroo sausages (or lean meat sausages) on tomato and avocado for breakfast or snack

Fresh, delicious, colourful and easy to prepare dishes.  Do not be afaid to eat healthy foods everyday - do not starve yourself this WILL NOT make you healhier and fitter in the long run - just stuffs up your bodies metabolism and you want that baby firing with great fuel.

Dressing on salads, make them fresh with lemon juice and herbs. Have greek yoghurt with lemon, garlic, dill etc. Make things fresh. When shopping, stick to the outside of the supermarket except for cleaning products etc. Do not think that museli bars and packaged health foods are GOOD for you.

Kick starting your challenge..... nutrition tips - healthy eating

Being fit and healthy starts in the kitchen.  This doesn't mean you have to eat chicken and broccoli or bland food everyday, that is not living and experiencing great food.  You can eat healthy and still enjoy fabulous tasting cuisines.  Experimenting with recipes and finding a good dozen that you will cook or prepare regularly and you will start to create a healthy eating habit, it is this healthy eating habit that will make you feel healthier, have more energy, you will sleep better and probably find you feel better overall, your hair glossier, nails stronger, digestion has improved, skin clearer and even your clothes might become a little big on you.

My first rule is not to label food good or bad. Yes there is food that isn't the best for you & has zero nutritional value, but you need to get out of old habits of associating words with foods,  to create NEW habits.  If you just buy fresh foods and eliminate all processed foods from your shopping trolley, you will notice a difference.  Takes time and a little organisation and planning.  If you are organised with your food, preparing your snacks you WILL achieve your goal of getting healthy.

Second rule - don't think you deserve foods. You don't, I don't care if you have had the worst day ever or you have trained your butt of at the gym, you deserve only to fuel your body with healthy foods it requires to function, that is all. Period.  Do not reward yourself with food. You ain't a dog.   If you feel like a glass of red, have a glass of red, fancy a square or two of dark chocolate with your evening cuppa, then have it.  The world will not end.  You will battle those food demons, once you control them you will achieve your goals. Busting your gut in the gym and counting every little bit of food you put in your mouth, will drive you insane and you probably will find you ain't achieving your goals. Is that how you want to live your life?

I want you to be in control mentally, I want you to not have emotions attached to food.  This won't be fixed in 10 weeks but it will start to become apparent.  There is so much advice out there, so many plans, do this don't do that.... listen to what works for you.   Use this 10 weeks to learn about what you can achieve, not just about the number on those scales, but about who you are, and what you want. Break those habits, take down those walls, love you for you and know that you ain't perfect, who wants to be? You can be great, awesome and achieve wonderful things. You can.

So for the next 10 weeks, your first aim is to reduce/eliminate processed foods you consume.  It will be hard, but like every other challenge you have had in your life, you will succeed.  Do not make this to hard for yourself, will take a little to get used to, concept is quite simple but will take time to get used to, creating new habits to last a lifetime. You didn't become who you are overnight did you?  Takes time, patience and a little effort.

So you have seen my favourite meals to make: http://fitbydons2012.blogspot.com.au/2012/07/what-are-my-favourite-healthy-meals-to.html

These are simple using ingredients available from the store and they are quite varied.  You don't have to be a superwhiz in the kitchen.  Take time out to prep meals and trust me you will do well, I do two cooking days a week normally, I find freezing stuff works but I also know that if I get to work one day with NO food make up I know what I can have and eat clean still without thinking ahhh feck it today is just a bad day. No way.

Fresh vegetables, green leafy ones, different colours, eat them all. Refrain from white products (potato, breads, rice)

Fruit - blueberries, mandarin, apple, figs, strawberries, kiwi fruit, pineapple

Proteins - meat, kangaroo, fish, salmon, prawns, chicken, eggs, nuts (almonds, brazil nuts, cashews) non roasted nuts, raw.

Dairy - full fat products (less sugar than diet stuff) do not eat ANY diet products.  If you want to really notice a difference give up all dairy except yoghurt a couple times a week.  Long black coffees are the best & tea, took me a few weeks to get used to it! Taste buds prefer black

If you love muesli, make it yourself, have with 1/2 cup with yoghurt, seeds, nuts and fruit.

No soft drink, no diet products, no packaged goods. No frozen meals unless you cooked them. Allow yourself a glass or two of wine a week, some dark chocolate with green tea, or black tea.

So what to eat I hear you...  I know it is easier to have a suggestion of foods for meals... so here are some great things to eat.... you can eat them anytime of the day, your body doesn't know it is breakfast time, it just needs fuel.  So kangaroo for breakfast? YUM yes please.

Do not starve yourself. If you are hungry you need to eat fat and protein.  Do not just eat fruit on its own. Fat should be at least 30-50g a day from meats, proteins etc.  Your BODY will love you putting more fat into it for fuel - healthy fats!

Breakfasts
Kangaroo, broccoli, brazil nuts
Omelette with veggies and protein
Fruit with muesli, yoghurt or coconut milk (you can do light version for this, ayam is great)
Egg muffins with ham/salmon
Boiled egg, ham,  quarter or half avocado

Snacks
Fruit with nut butter or yogurt (Greek is best full fat, nom)
Egg
Avocado with chicken
Yogurt
Nuts (almonds, brazil nuts, cashews)
Baked apple with walnuts
Protein balls (will post recipe)
Protein shake (pea isolate is good) raw protein powder ok for shakes a couple times a week on the run.

Lunch
Huge spinach salad with chicken, fish, prawns or any meat with beetroot, cucumber, cherry tomatoes, gherkins, onions - lots of colours
Left over dinners
Soups with veggies or baked chicken
Any Protein and veggies
Omelet with prawns and vegetables
Curry with coconut milk (beef, chicken) lots of vegetables, brown rice or quinoa
Shepherds pie with sweet potato mash on top
Baked fish and vegetables (steamed or baked)
Baked chicken, with paprika, lemon garlic (great for large batches for left overs)
Turkey meatballs, tomato sauce (homemade or tins fine) with zucchini strips
Cheeky scrambled eggs with smoked salmon (or tinned tuna, salmon) great for last minute dinner
Seafood and papaya salad (still reliving Thailand experience)

Dinner
Soups, with chicken or fish, salads, bulk up with veggies
Beef burgers with mushrooms, onions on salad (no bread)
Protein stir fry with lots of vegetables, chilli, garlic, fresh herbs ( no pasta.rice or noodles)
Protein with sweet potato mash and steamed veggies
Spaghetti bolognase served on steamed vegetables or baked veggies
Roast meat with baked vegetables

Use coconut oil, olive oil to cook. Fresh herbs and spice to marinate foods, Lemon, Limes, chilli, garlic.  Yogurt with garlic and lemon juice is a great dressing.
No sauces, no salt (soy cause low salt)
Do not be afraid to cook with fat. Or eat fat. 
Do watch portion sizes - 100g protein for main meals. 10-20 nuts for snack. 100g yogurt. 1/2 cup brown rice, quinoa. 50g sweet potato or pumpkin.  Two servings fruit a day only (with protein.fat).
Lots of water, herbal tea, black tea and coffee. If you cannot have coffee black, dash of cream or full fat milk (soy or almond milk if you have those, try not to have too much of these processed products).

FITbyDons get fit & healthy challenge..... dare you!

What is your ultimate goal? Your Number ONE goal - to be fitter, healthier?  Great... but where do you start? That is a broad goal.Time to put thoughts into action.

Winter is hard, you know you should be eating better and moving your body a couple times a week but it is just so hard to get up in the mornings, it is cold, dark, wet, miserable - I totally get it!  You have your good days and some not so good days... you are human, you will have those days where you just think it is hopeless, so you go to bed and then continue the next day.

In about five weeks time it will be getting warmer and summer will be on it's way (we hope and pray) and you will all be thinking EEEEk beach body isn't ready... well time to get fit and healthy NOW! Put down that hot chocolate, step away from the stodgy dinners and get your body & mind ready for the warmer weather!

Let's work together to gain results - getting you feeling healthier, stronger and leaner!  Make you feel better, sleep better, reduce stress and also look great.

I know I am super keen to challenge myself, I hope you are too! Some of you may even be following another plan at the moment, there are some great ones (Mish Bridges 12WBT and 50-days No Sugar) if you have missed those or are stilll keen to challenge yourself, we can all get fit and healthy together - always nice to know others are going through the same struggles and challenges, together.

Where to start I hear you. Start today. Yes a Friday, yes near the weekend.  Get the wheels in motion, start thinking and planning today to get ready for Monday!

What you need to do, actions and planning are KEY: 

1. Write down your goals, ultimate goals. In detail. SMART goals (specific, measurable, attainable, realistic and timely)

MINE: To eat clean, healthy fresh foods 90% of the time, rid of all processed foods, be organised in the kitchen and have food prepped and ready for each week.  Follow my exercise programme 5-days a week to get stronger, end goal to do 10 full body unassisted chin ups. Rehabilitate my knees by completing assigned leg exercise 3 x a week as set out by physio to prepare me for surgery next year. Drop overall body fat to 19% (currently 24%) and increase muscle mass by 4kgs.  Oxygen covergirl photo to be sent in by October. LOTS of work to be done.

2. Plan your week out - when you have work, shopping, cooking prep, family activities,  plan it all out, so you know exactly what you have on this week, planning is key.  Some days things won't go to plan, that is life, but at least you will know where you are at. Plan red flag days (fabulous thing I learnt from doing Mish Bridges 12 week plan) write down those birthday parties, work drinks etc.  You can PLAN around them.

3.  Work out a rough meal guide for the week - list of fresh foods to make meals. Have a cooking day if you can and make healthy foods to put in the freezer, I will share some of my favourite bulk meal recipes that will help you feel organised and keep you eating healthy.  Check out some of my favourites here.

4. Measurements - how are you going to measure your success? I suggest weigh in ONCE a week, do your measurements with tape measure and also have your trusty jeans or black pants that you can measure by.  Take a before shot, DO IT, no-one likes the before shot, but I guarantee you you will be so glad you did it when you put it alongside your AFTER shot in about 10 weeks time. 

5. Rewards - how are you going to reward yourself for your fabulous achievements? Put money aside each week into a kitty and you can do a pamper day, have a manicure, massage, new dress, new shoes... whatever YOU feel like you would love to reward yourself.  NO FOOD rewards... 

6. Positive people - tell a close friend or someone that you can trust for support, some people will try and sabotage you, this is to deal with issues they are having, so just brush it off. People will want to give you cake, tell you that you are fine the way it is... it is your goal remember, so stick to it.  Do up a visual board, cut out pictures of people or things that inspire you, put it up near your bed, on your fridge, this constant reminder will keep you positive.

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Blog topics to come:

Healthy meals and snack recipes

Weight training exercises - beginner, intermediate, advance

Core strength, how it enhances your training
Importance of rest days
Why Sugar is bad for you!

Is that a cupcake?

You think you are plodding along all nice and healthy and BAM there is a pretty pink cupcake sitting there in front of you, everyone else is having one and you think "I shouldn't" - what do you do?  I ate that gorgeous sweet delightful cupcake with its high sugar content..... I had planned my sweet encounter. I knew it was coming.

It was GOOOD.  Enjoyed every sugar licking mouthful.  Why you ask, gasp?! Because I had been really good nutrition wise and training wise in the last two weeks since I got back from Thailand, managed to drop a couple kgs on the scale (beer & noodle belly, aka buddha belly) and just felt like a cupcake, with my nice long black. Yummy, delicious, scrumptious, get in my belly.

The positive thing is I haven't fallen off the healthy band wagon, I have just made the decision to have a little something sweet and enjoyed it. I still ate my healthy snacks for that day and trained like a mofo in the gym. This boys and girls I find works for me and keeps me from "binging".  I am not training for a comp, or Olympics (yet) I am getting fitter and stronger everyday, I can tell that from my training and my body shape in the mirror.  

The only person I have to answer to is me. I am human and thank god I am in a healthy mind space about food. We have cake for the next two days at work, but I have already had my little piece of heaven (helps being the person who is responsible for the ordering the cake, so I can work out what I like and what I can indulge in)! Plus I don't really worry about saying NO. People around here are used to me with my "strange" eating habits.

I don't count calories anymore, I don't worry about doing three classes back to back if I have chocolate, I just make sure the chocolate is yummy and made with natural ingredients! I track my nutrition intake to pretty much keep an eye on my sugar and ensure I get enough fuel (I can funnily enough under eat some days).  

Who wants to live like that so restraint?  My wish for everyone out there, even the ones who do seriously have a good solid 10+kgs to lose, is that you are what you eat and think. Start thinking healthy, planning healthy activities with your friends and family, fill your cupboards with good fresh snacks and healthy meal plans. Allow yourself something a little naughty once a week (not a cheat meal or day) no cheating here or binging! Prepare for it, so you will enjoy it, keeping you being on track the rest of the week. If you fall off, well get up and dust yourself off and get back on the healthy wagon, it should become easier and just part of your lifestyle.  Learn NEW healthy eating patterns, learn what to buy from the shops, where to get fresh cheaper produce and have a good solid list of quick and easy recipes.... it will take over the old habit and be your new healthy habit. DO IT.

Do not give yourself the opportunity to be sabotaged by yourself or others. What do YOU want to achieve. Stand on your two feet and say "No, I don't want that, but thanks for asking".  What is your goal?  We all know you ain't going to get the changes you want until you change.  So what are you waiting for?  

Overheard on bus this morning: when I lose "more" weight everything will just be better for me, I know it!

After hitting the snooze button three times this morning I trundled (trotted? toodled) to work on the #377 bus from Randwick.  The bus was packed and I had my earphones in but hadn't pressed the play (trying to juggle bags, gym and handbag) as I caught up with my morning social media networks (who was eating what for breakfast on Facebook and Twitter) it was then I overhead the two very young girls discussing going to the gym after work.

I smiled, thinking to myself "me too" and kept scrolling down my Facebook feed not really concentrating on the rest of the conversation until I heard "sometimes it is just so hard, you know, trying to lose weight"! I think at this moment I turned my head to the left to actually check out the bodyshape of the young girls - slim, slender.  (So glad I had my fake Prada sunnies on from Thailand so they couldn't see my eyes).... then her girlfriend responded with " I know when I lose more weight everything will just be better for me,  I know it"!

I just wanted to lean over and slap these two 24-year old something girls! They have so much in life I am sure, they looked healthy and well dressed, no doubts have great jobs somewhere in the city and still they are still talking about their image, like being underweight and having spaghetti arms is going to be the big saviour, that once they get to their ideal weight (god knows what they weighed, around 50-53kgs?) that everything will just fall into their laps? That being skinny/slimmer than they are now is the answer to everything? 

Now alarm bells rang when she said the word  "MORE"... when I lose more weight... now she could of very well lost you know 20 or 30kgs previously, but you could just tell that it was more likely 1-2kgs... I have trained girls like this in the gym...

This is the point I put on my headphones and starting drafting this blog post.   The message still seems to be very loud and clear - you are not accepted or successful unless you are skinny! Arrghhhh.  I know not every girl thinks the same but I guarantee you this, there would be many young girls who would say the same thing, guaranteed.

So lets get THIS message right

Strong is the new skinny, healthy is the new skinny......